Who I Work With
I work with the new children, called Indigo or Crystal who
often display symptoms of dyslexia, language delay, hyperactivity,
attention deficit disorder or food intolerances. In addition,
I focus on working with parents who are interested in making diet
changes and who are open to changing their family lifestyle.
My clients all share one common trait: They all want
to find a solution to their child’s problem or problems…
Because I work closely with parents in a partnership to help their child, I’ve
decided not to work anymore with parents who simply want to drop their child
off at my office and expect me to fix the problem myself, without any parental
involvement.
As a parent, you have to take your responsibility back.
If you
take back your power/responsibility as a parent, you will feel such a
relief you’ll wonder why you didn’t do it earlier…
- You need not come to therapy for years: I want
to work with you and your child, so you can get to the point where
you do not need to turn to a therapist when you face a bump in
the road. You will already have the skills and the knowledge you
need to solve the problem with your child.
- You need to involve yourself in the process. You
are going to have to do some Emotional Freedom Technique (EFT)
for yourself, and you are going to possibly need to do some EFT
with your child, if it works.
- Once you and your child practice EFT, both you and he will
feel so much better. EFT allows you to let go of your fears,
which will ultimately lead to less stress and much more happiness.
Your child is not “the” problem.
This means that when a child in a family displays symptoms, he
is trying to get a message to us. The great news is that you
as parents will immensely benefit from helping your child as you will
let go of fears and stress along the way. It’s important to understand
and acknowledge that if you want to work successfully with me. You need
to have time to be a part of the process. Working with me is an investment
in your child’s future.
Finally, you want to take your power back.
If you give your power to doctors, therapists
and teachers, you will become part of an endless cycle. Taking
responsibility will ensure you help your child succeed rather than
getting stuck in the endless cycle. Taking back your
power as parents is not difficult. It’s such a relief to discover
your own skills and to know you are competent in helping your own
child.
How I Can Help
Are some of these scenarios true for you?
Scenario 1: Your child has been diagnosed with dyslexia
If your child
has been diagnosed with dyslexia, you have likely
been told by the diagnosing therapist that the prognosis is not
very good. Your
child will be able to cope, but school will always be difficult
for him. He will always have to use more energy than other students
to get to the same results. On the whole, nothing to look forward
to!
Such a prognosis is daunting for both you and for your child. There
are no good reasons to accept such a prognosis. Taking the holistic approach
will open up many other doors toward different results. When
you work with me, you understand your child is intelligent and there
is a way to help him to freedom.
Scenario 2: Your Child Has Been Labeled “Slow”
Many of the children with whom I work are considered slow because
they do not work as fast as other children in the class. Your
child may be slow at school, but when doing things he likes, he is not
slow! You know deep down that he is perfectly intelligent.
Sometimes, this so-called slow child is a perfectionist. Either
he is never satisfied and starts over and over, getting frustrated,
or he doesn’t start because he’s afraid of mistakes. Typically, when
he takes a test in school, he either works too slowly or panics,
resulting in low grades.
Your child may then be forced to spend his weekend catching up on the
work he didn’t finish during the week. While you might suspect
your child is doing this on purpose, you know deep down that it’s
not true.
Scenario 3: Your Child Has Low Self-Esteem and Lacks Confidence
Your
child is shy, is afraid of tests and of doing poorly in school: He
may lack self esteem and it is stopping him from revealing his
potential. You know your child is intelligent and creative, but
he is always worried and stressed.
Perhaps something went wrong at school when he was younger: Someone
made fun of him, said he wasn’t doing well or he had a bad experience,
which resulted in a false conclusion: He is not good enough.
Such children often respond very well and very quickly to EFT,
if both you and your child are willing to practice daily between our sessions
(10 minutes are enough).
Scenario 4: Your Child Is Highly Sensitive
You may have one child who is not like the others. He reacts strongly
to noise, smell, refuses to wear tight clothes, refuses certain foods
or textures. He can evaluate new people in seconds and loves
or hates them. He is not impressed by punishment and
will explain to you how much he wants revenge.
Traditional psychotherapy hasn’t worked or he clearly refused
to visit certain therapists again. Sometimes the psychologist cannot
help because the child is a psychic, can read the auras and feel/hear
what others are thinking. He will know who he can confide in. I work
with these children because I understand them.
This child loves animals, nature, talks to flowers and is in awe
in front of a nice landscape. He can also become very worried
about ecological problems. Some will refuse to eat meat because
they do not want to hurt animals.
He will have a unique notion of respect and integrity. Lying to him
is impossible. He will know if you are, and confront you either verbally
of through acting out. That can be rather frightening as a parent.
As a result, adults have to really look at themselves and really have
to work on their integrity and honesty.As a result, it’s important
for you to follow through with everything you say. If you are the parent
of an indigo and you say one thing and do something else, your child
will respond in a negative manner.
Sometimes he will surprise you with very mature thoughts or insights.
He can have very determined tastes since a very young age.
Chances are this child is a so called “Indigo or Crystal” child. Labels
are not so important. What is important is understanding how he
sees life and the world to understand his reactions.
Even though he is
highly sensitive your child needs limits and structures. You
will not help him if you revere him as a queen or king. The
key is to respect him for who he truly is and not for who you
want him to be. These children are asking us to review our fear based
up bringing and find new ways but they still need to have parents!
Scenario 5: Your child is late speaking
Amongst the very sensitive kids, more and more are starting to talk
later than expected. Some don’t use verbal language before
three, four or even five years old. This can be quite a stressful
situation for the parents.
Some of these Crystal children have the ability of reading people’s
energy fields and communicating telepathically with their parents. Therefore,
they have no need for speech and it is only when they start
socializing more and more out of their home that they understand
the importance of verbal language with non-telepathic people.
As
a language therapist, I recommend you have your child’s speech
assessed if you are worried but do visit an open-minded therapist
so your child does not get immediately labeled. Explaining
to your child why speech is helpful and how much easier communication
will be with others is a good starting point.
Other scenarios can include toxicity stemming from the gut and “clouding” the
brain, or blocks which can be alleviated through EFT or everything
at once.
Scenario 6: Your Child Has Food Sensitivities
Your child may have food intolerances or sensitivities. They
are, in fact, very common and we miss them because we think his
behavior has to do with his personality. It’s only when you take out processed
foods, for example, and see a difference that you realize there’s
a problem.
Sometimes you will have noticed that he comes back very “high” after
birthday parties. That’s triggered mostly by the sugar
and food additives in the sweets and treats.
There can be other
food intolerances such as gluten and casein, just to name a
few. Food
intolerances usually stem from bad gut flora and have a huge impact
on a child’s ability to concentrate, learn, behave
and be happy!
Changing Your Ways for Great Things To Happen!
For great things to happen, you must do things differently.
It’s very important to be committed to changing what is
not working with your child and to be open to trying new things.
For example, if you have been reading with your child every single day
for a couple of years and he is in language therapy for reading and
it is not working, that means that is not where the cause of the problem
lies.
It’s time to learn how to stop doing the same things that do not
work and find what does work.
The Solution: Get involved in on one of my great coaching
programs to help you solve these situations and unleash your child’s
potential. Click here for complete details.
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